My mother wasn’t born in this country; nor did she move
here as a child like I did. She lives in
a country that is not hers because her children are here. She doesn’t drive or speak English very well. She is not the independent human being she is
in her native country in South America.
We all know that she loves her visits there; but her heart is here, with
us. Whatever we need help with, she’s
there. Whether it’s to feed a pet while
we’re on vacation, or to sit a child if we need to go out, she jumps at the
chance. We talk every single day;
because she calls to check on us or we check on her. She has taken care of every single kid, grandkid
and great-grandkid in our family – even recently at 78 years of age.
Many years ago when I asked my then-husband to move out,
I was devastated. My mom was not with
me. She was on one of her trips; having
fun, and enjoying a much needed vacation and rest. I didn’t tell her what happened. I didn’t call her. Not because I didn’t need her desperately,
but because I really thought I could tough it out a few days until her
return. But my dear sister decided my
mom needed to know. Thank God!! My mom was on the first flight back. She surprised me when she walked in my
house. I fell on her sobbing, unable to
contain my heartache. She just said, ‘I’m
here, I’m going to take care of you now.
I’ll be your husband now.’ While
that may sound odd to some; I understood exactly what she meant. She would be with me through this tough
period. She would take care of me and
whatever else needed taking care of. She
would see that the kids were okay. She
would be my support. She would be there
for me – every step of the way; until all was well and beyond.
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